Consistently in my office when I challenge someone to sit with their emotional experience and hurt related to something that […]
I set the boundary, now what?
So you’ve tried setting a boundary and it isn’t honored…now what do you do? For relationships in which we have […]
I’m finding myself…
Boundaries…a word we hear all the time and yet is something so hard to put in place in our lives. […]
The Infamous Shame Box 3.0
This continues to be a post that is ever evolving as I am able to see more patterns evolve in […]
Adding to the Shame Box
I initially posted the Shame Box in June 202 but as time has gone on, I have found that there […]
Is it support or sacrifice?
I have been realizing lately how often we seem to confuse what it means to love and support others with […]
Is it “therapizing” or listening?
I’ve been told several times over the past week by acquaintances (and really through out the years) that I’m “deep” […]
But…
I’m upset but…I love you but…I understand how you feel but…I’m sorry but… It is a simple word with enormous […]
Don’t Should on Yourself
I should be working out more…I shouldn’t have done that…I just need to let things go…I should have started healing […]
Control vs Influence
Given my reflection this morning and the fact that I began to elude to his in previous posts, maybe it’s […]
Letting Go of Control-
One of my people said an incredibly insightful thing two weeks ago that I have continued to hold onto. “I […]
The Infamous Shame Box
For anyone who’s been in my room, you probably remember the day I showed you the shame box…it was a […]