Consistently in my office when I challenge someone to sit with their emotional experience and hurt related to something that […]
I set the boundary, now what?
So you’ve tried setting a boundary and it isn’t honored…now what do you do? For relationships in which we have […]
I’m finding myself…
Boundaries…a word we hear all the time and yet is something so hard to put in place in our lives. […]
The Infamous Shame Box 3.0
This continues to be a post that is ever evolving as I am able to see more patterns evolve in […]
Seasons
So many of us are afraid of people leaving our lives that we start to keep people from getting to […]
Adding to the Shame Box
I initially posted the Shame Box in June 202 but as time has gone on, I have found that there […]
Do What I Say, Not What I Do
I cannot even count the number of times that I heard this growing up. Do what I say, not what […]
What if being selfish is a good thing?
I was talking with one of my people a couple weeks ago and she was sharing her fear of being […]
Is your support supporting?
I have had several things I have wanted to write about but things have been crazy lately. I wanted to […]
Hungry Baby
Yesterday, I had a conversation with one of my people about something that is very hard to do…allow ourselves to […]
Meet Me
Something that my people hear a lot from me is “When we change and heal, we force people to change […]
The Journey of Trust
This week, I have been reflecting on, and discussing, the journey we go through to gain trust. I’m going to […]
Is it support or sacrifice?
I have been realizing lately how often we seem to confuse what it means to love and support others with […]
Control vs Influence
Given my reflection this morning and the fact that I began to elude to his in previous posts, maybe it’s […]