If you know me, you know that there is a lot about our culture that I find very backwards and […]
Is your support supporting?
I have had several things I have wanted to write about but things have been crazy lately. I wanted to […]
Hungry Baby
Yesterday, I had a conversation with one of my people about something that is very hard to do…allow ourselves to […]
Meet Me
Something that my people hear a lot from me is “When we change and heal, we force people to change […]
The Journey of Trust
This week, I have been reflecting on, and discussing, the journey we go through to gain trust. I’m going to […]
Is it support or sacrifice?
I have been realizing lately how often we seem to confuse what it means to love and support others with […]
What is it about me?
Have you ever started to feel like it must be something about you that over and over, people seem to […]
Is it “therapizing” or listening?
I’ve been told several times over the past week by acquaintances (and really through out the years) that I’m “deep” […]
Color Blind
I often feel like when I talk to my people about healing, it’s like I’m explaining color to someone who […]
Addiction isn’t about Addiction
Today, one of my people who is in recovery from alcohol abuse/addiction, expressed shame at the fact that she almost […]
Hindsight is 20/20
If I would have just… Have you ever noticed how clear it all seems when you look back on a […]
You did the best you could
I asked one of my people this week if they were to rate me on a bull shit meter where […]
Why we push people away
Yesterday, I pointed out with one of my people that after beginning to open up a lot, they were pulling […]
But…
I’m upset but…I love you but…I understand how you feel but…I’m sorry but… It is a simple word with enormous […]
Don’t Should on Yourself
I should be working out more…I shouldn’t have done that…I just need to let things go…I should have started healing […]
How do we “feel what we feel”?
I often talk to people about the importance of “feeling what they feel”. First off, know that I know that […]
Self Care
I’m on my way to the mountains for the night, this is my happy place where I feel most at […]
“The Vault”
So last night,one of my little people that I’ve known for some time now and has always insisted is not […]
Control vs Influence
Given my reflection this morning and the fact that I began to elude to his in previous posts, maybe it’s […]
Letting Go of Control-
One of my people said an incredibly insightful thing two weeks ago that I have continued to hold onto. “I […]